I was with my ex for one year, we broke up millions of times for no longer then 2weeks and now it’s been two months without her, because I would go out clubbing, drinking and many times my ex girlfriend caught me flirting with different girls on Facebook, girls always chasing me and I messed up by giving them attention. I love my ex girlfriend and never thought I’d lose it, I took her for granted. She gave me so many chances to change and I never got the point and now tables has turned I want her back. After the break up we remained friends and talk from time to time. Nothing serious but she says I drained her and she’s over it. Everything I do she questions it and even tho I tell her the truth she doesn’t believe me. What she I do ? How can I gain my ex friends trust back ?
Answer by Sunidaze
so sorry but if u got back togehter, she would never be able to trust you. A relationship should be based on honesty, and even if you change, she’s always going to be worried about you cheating on her. i know this is so hars to hear, but either you have that REALLY emotional talk with her, where u convince her she’s the ONLY one for u, or u move on, which is the best thing to do, since she isn’t gonna trust u..
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You lost her and now you want her back.
Whether your breakup happened a day ago, three months ago, a year ago or even if she’s seeing someone else, there is always a way to get back the girl who has captured your heart.
The No. 1 rule to any breakup is to take some time apart. I want you to promise that you will not contact her for at least two weeks. Even if you live together or work together it CAN be done.
Youre taking “MENTAL” space apart. So even if you still have to have physical proximity , you can still get some breathing room.
Why is this important ? Well since you want your Ex back, odds are that you were dumped by them.
They found you to be a known quantity and are basically bored or over you.
Giving space creates a gap so that your ex can look at you with new eyes.
Breakups can be emotionally draining, and you’re going to need some time to breathe, calm down and take some time to put things into a logical perspective.
Time apart will allow everything to cool down and be less emotionally charged. Plus, it gives you time to evaluate how you feel about the breakup, where things went wrong and whether or not you really want to get her back.
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Zzzzziiiiiip…CRASH!…and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al’s Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window…followed by a shrill and sobbing “GET OUT!…GET OUT!…GET OooooUT!”
See,IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart…he had lied so often… had ignored Deidre so much that she just reached her boiling point that hot, muggy summer afternoon.
And Al did get out. Deidre was serious. She had had enough of Al’s ways. See, Al was a good guy…a great guy even…he cared deeply and loved Deidre…and Deidre knew it too…but that wasn’t her problem.She was sick of feeling unappreciated…and Al just didn’t know what would make her happy anymore. He didn’t know how to wipe the slate clean…or start over…
And this WAS the end of Deidre and Al…forever…As it is the end of so many relationships…
What if it didn’t have to be?
What if you could recapture your ex lovers mind, heart and soul?…Wipe the slate clean? Turn back time? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone…too screwed up …or just plain too darn complicated?
I am going to show you right in this letter the first thing Al SHOULD have done…first may I say?…
I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heartache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too…and I am not going to belabor on and on about the pain you feel…because I know that you know it all too well…
You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can’t even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn’t bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on “their side”.
If you are in pain and confused?
Here’s some good news…
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope…
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
When a relationship ends it becomes very easy to second-guess the results, play Monday morning quarterback and convince yourself that had you only done this differently, she would have stayed. Maybe your reasoning rings true but the past has already gone and you find yourself in the position you are in now. It is a matter of fact in dating, that you will have an ex-girlfriend that you will want to get back from another guy or have her want you back when she has already moved on with her life. The situations are various i.e. she broke up with you (see: Following the No Contact Rule) or perhaps you broke up with her and now regret the decision to do so. Regardless of what the circumstances were, you now have the compulsive feeling to do something like make her jealous of you or to win her back fast and have things go back to the way they were. When it all boils down to the base of your desires, can you honestly say that you want her to come back? Or is it really less about the actual relationship and more about your own ego clamoring to have what it has lost? For this post, I want to help you consider what it could actually mean to want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, and that in most cases you end up chasing something that no longer exists because you feel bad or think it will make your life better.
I’m against getting back with your ex in most cases but if you still want her back, here is a program to help you with that.
When you’re in the mode of thought that you are certain that you want to rekindle a relationship with your ex, I know that those feelings can be immensely powerful and completely consume your thoughts. I’ve been in the same spot you have, as well as countless other guys, and the thing is that if you move on these thoughts tend to move on as well. It is really incredible how things completely change, if you add the ingredient of moving on and combining it with time. Girls who you convince yourself are your one and only, eventually fall from thought and you begin to question what was so special about them in the first place.
If you have recently broken up with your girlfriend, you really need to take some time to get your mind right before you make any decisions (Moving on From Your Ex-Girlfriend). A decision based on emotion is generally a poor one and can have you wondering what it is you were thinking once you’ve healed your heart. If you are a guy who still clamors for a girl he dated a long time ago, seriously move the fuck on. She wasn’t the idyllic flower you make her out to be in your mind and thinking so is going to make every other girl you meet, pale in comparison, thus screwing up your future dating prospects. You can’t be one of these guys who goes through life on some Great Gatsby type quest to get back his true love, who turns out to be a spoiled child, and not a woman worthy of loving.
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What should a guy do if he wants to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?
If your significant other breaks up with you, two of the best things you can do to get her back are:
1- Act like you’re okay with her decision to leave.
2- Start dating other people and let her know about it.
This combination alone is usually enough to make her come back to you.
Jealousy is powerful. It’s far more powerful than most people suspect.
A situation where girl “A” didn’t have any feelings for you until she saw you with girl “B” is the rule, not the exception.
Jealousy causes people to do crazy things and feel very powerful emotions… from love to hate.
Trying to “get her back” is a losing game in most situations, because the act alone suggests that you’re needy (especially when you don’t even know a woman very well, and you’re trying to “get her back” after one or two dates).
The best thing to do is get on with your life, then call your ex-girlfriend in a month or two to see if she wants to have coffee.
Don’t talk about heavy things, and don’t mention anything about what happened. Just be casual.
Question by Just Me: “Breaking Up” with a friend?
So I’ve been friends with this girl for about my whole life. She was always pretty annoying, but now that we’ve reached high school, its become a bit of a problem. She makes me feel bad about myself and embarasses me in front of my friends.
I’ve begun to branch out and make new friends, and so has she. But we still share some close friends. She used to be my best friend, and I recently told her about a kiss with a guy. I told her not to tell anybody, but she did anyways. Its just annoying! And then yesterday we went snowboarding and I was doing really well, but I accidently crashed into her. On facebook, she was all like “Omg, wow way to crash into me! hahaha”. I know it seems really little, but its embarassing when she displays your whole mistake to the world.
She’s socially weird, and I find myself getting annoyed with her at sleepovers with others, and I can’t take it anymore. The only reason I continue to hang out with her is because I’m bored and she lives close to me, and I know this isn’t fair to her. Its cruel of me, actually.
How do I “break up” with this friend? I just want to quit cold turkey because I can’t handle it anymore. It has been happening for year, and I just can’t take it.
Answer by Ophélie
You just say. “I don’t think we should be friends any more” and then tell her your reasons, she wont take it well but it will work and she will get the message. She may have not really noticed these things and might try to improve.
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Question by blab: What does a “temporary break-up” from a girl really mean?
I have been dating this girl for almost two months. I think we both enjoyed each other. However, she has a lot of homework. I am in honors classes and she still has more homework than me. I know how stress she has been. Four days before the break up, she stops really texting to me and talking to me. She says that her phone is off whenever I ask her why she hasn’t text me. I know for sure that two days before the break up she couldn’t talk text me because she was working as stage crew for the play from 4:30 to 9:00. Today she seemed really sad and depressed. She was talking to her friend about telling me something. She avoided me and went to go with her friend, which I usually do to let her have her freedom. I knew it was coming on so all through first block I was preparing myself. I thought I was being a bad boyfriend, which I kind of was. I wasn’t horrible, but I was treating her like a thing (She was my first girlfriend). After first block she stopped me and told me that she doesn’t want to have a boyfriend anymore because of how stressed she is. She wants a temporary break up for now. I was fine with that, we hugged, and now we are not dating. I still really like her and I am not sure if she really doesn’t like me anymore or if she really is stressed. I need some help.
Answer by Alec H
she does not find you sexy but feels sorry for you
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Going Back To Your Ex Quotes – Broken Heart Poems and Quotes Can’t Bring Your Ex Back, But These 4 Tips Can
Going Back To Your Ex Quotes – Broken Heart Poems and Quotes Can’t Bring Your Ex Back, But These 4 Tips Can
Almost everyone has to face a breakup at one point in their lives. A breakup can be a very trying experience. And, even if you have faced multiple breakups in the past, it doesn’t make the one you are going through right now any easier.
Following a breakup, the first thing many people do is to wallow in their heartbreak. We look for broken heart poems and quotes to make us feel better. After all, we all want to find solace in the words of others who have been through what we are going through right now. Of course, what makes the pain even more acute is that we often want to get our ex back.
Trouble is, broken heart poems and quotes can’t get your ex back. And, after all, maybe the breakup was for the best. If your ex was abusive or violent, it is best that you stay apart and go find someone better – because going back to an unhealthy relationship isn’t good for anybody.
However, if your current breakup involves a relationship that is worth saving, here are 4 tips that can help you get them back.
1. Apologize to your ex:
Apologizing to your ex is the first step in getting him or her back. Of course, saying sorry alone won’t be enough to get him or her back, but it is definitely one of the important first steps. After a breakup, it can be easy to blame the other person for the whole thing. However, usually we ourselves are at least partly to blame for being in our current situation.
Focus your apology on 2 – 3 of the key mistakes you made in your relationship.
Avoid going on for hours about how terrible you were, and don’t rattle off a list of a thousand things you did wrong. Rather, make your apology short and succinct. Of course, make sure that your apology doesn’t drag the two of you into an argument. If you say you’re sorry and your ex chimes in with their own example of how terribly you acted, make sure you don’t get defensive. Instead, just let them have their moment to vent – the painful moment will pass, I promise! Going Back To Your Ex Quotes
2. Take the time to talk about it
See if you can get your ex to agree to meet you for a cup of coffee or lunch. (Do not beg – just ask nicely and see what happens! If they won’t agree to meet with you just yet, just move on to Step 3).
When you meet, make sure to contain your deeper emotions. The last thing either of you needs is to make an already-unstable situation worse by crying or getting into a fight! Make sure your ex knows that your intention is not to blame him or her. Just focus on the key issues and talk it out.
3. Give him or her some space
At first, giving your ex more space may seem like strange advice. After all, isn’t the goal to get back together, not stay apart? However, observing this step is key. Spend a bit of time away from each other. Doing this will allow the heavy emotions to subside a bit, and even more importantly, it gives your ex the chance to miss you a bit.
4. Show them you respect yourself
In a situation where you want to get back together with your ex, it is always to your advantage to work from a position of strength, not weakness. Strength is beautiful, strength is attractive, and strength is the first component of getting what you want. If you seem desperate and needy, your ex will feel almost no motivation to reunite with you. Another way to respect yourself is to take care of the way you look. Put a little extra effort into your physical appearance. Start working out or taking walks. Do your hair a different way. Get some new clothes.
If you are searching for a way to mend your relationship and get your ex back, skip the broken heart poems and quotes. Instead, put your effort and energy into getting him or her back.
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Question by thejanitor: Unappreciated, possessive and jealous of ex girlfriend. Now What?
In this case the”girlfriend” is an overstatement simply because they never actually went out on a date but just hung out on campus. (go to class, walked around )No lunch dates, dinner dates anything of that sort.There was also a time when she neglected to call him for months over the summer. He says he is over her but still calls her his “first love.” I bash him for this bc it places her in a significant light which i don’t think she deserves, and i honestly think its quite pathetic to consider someone who never gave you the time of day to be your “first love.”
I think I treat him well. I make sure he eats well (when we go out or if i make him something) bc he has a sensitive digestive system. I stay up at night with him if he needs to talk (even when I had a major test that i was terrified of) and I am always there to support him. He says I am the only person he ever really felt comfortable with. I know he loves me, but now he has developed “anxiety issues” which are causing him to have doubts about me. (if he can stay with me, if he loves me) etc.He is seeking professional help now but I can’t help but feel frustrated that I am giving 100% into this and I don’t feel like I’m getting it back. What should I do?
Answer by Lisa
It sounds to me that he has commitment problems. Even you think it’s beyond ridiculous that he’s calling a girl he just hung around with his first love. It seems to me that he might be afraid to have an actual real relationship…who knows why, but it’s good that he’s getting professional help. I think you should back off a little. Let him come to you, stop fussing over him. Your role is turning into more of a caretaker/mother…and you don’t want that. Men do not find their mothers attractive, don’t act like his. Best thing to do is let him deal with his issues and stop trying to find ways to be supportive. You have to take care of yourself too. Perhaps you should even start seeing other people as well. He sounds like he doesn’t really know what he wants, and although you think that hanging around making yourself indispensable will help him to decide, it actually will have the opposite effect because he’ll feel smothered.
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